Boundaries Work

From the Peaceful Power™ method

Peaceful Power Tools

Your boundary toolkit, in your pocket. For the moments that don't wait for a coaching session.

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Boundary moments don't book appointments.

The text that makes your stomach drop. The "quick favour" that isn't. The Sunday dinner comment you're still replaying on Tuesday.

They turn up at 9pm, at the school gate, halfway through a meeting… never conveniently inside a coaching session.

So I built Peaceful Power Tools: the coach in your pocket for exactly those moments. Somewhere to think it through, feel it out, and walk away with words that actually hold.

Every tool runs on the same method my one-to-one clients use. Ask it to write you a poem and it'll politely steer you back to your boundary.

Here's what's inside.

Free, for everyoneStart here, no card needed.

  • 1-Minute Reset: one minute of guided breathing, for when you can't think straight.
  • Boundary Fruit Machine: pull for a boundary card, written for your situation.
  • Your coach: talk it through, then it points you to the tool that fits.
  • Boundary DNA Script Generator: five ready-to-say scripts, from gentle to firm.
  • Boundary Converter: turns what you don't want into a calm "here's what I want".

Plus a quiet space to talk things through, your saved words, and every past conversation in one place.

With a membershipEverything free, plus:

  • Boundary DNA Coach: builds a real boundary with you, and teaches you the method as you go.
  • Limit or Boundary?: works out whether it's a can't or a won't, then gives you words that match.
  • Boundary Reverser: for the yes you already regret.
  • Boundary Gear Selector: someone's already crossed a line. Find the right-sized response.
  • Unlimited Fruit Machine cards.

For Peaceful Power graduatesEverything above, plus the two at the heart of the programme:

  • Boundary S.E.N.S.E.: a five-step gut check for the decisions that are genuinely hard to call.
  • Boundary Sparring Partner: rehearse the conversation out loud before the real thing.

These unlock when you finish the six-week Peaceful Power™ programme.

Type it, or tap the mic and say it out loud. It works on your phone, your laptop, and on your home screen like an app.

Your conversations are yours. They're kept so you can come back to them, they're never used to train AI, and you can delete everything any time.

Membership

£25£19a month

Founding price. It goes up to £25 a month later.

£14 a month for Peaceful Power graduates.

Start with a 14-day free trial. You add your card to start, and nothing is charged if you cancel within the 14 days. After that, cancel any time: no phone call, no guilt trip. (I'd never survive the irony.)

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Not for emergencies. If you, or someone else, isn't safe right now, the app's Help now page lists free UK support lines, and you can always call 999.

See you in there.

Ian

P.S. Not sure where your boundaries stand yet? Take the free quiz first. Two minutes, and you'll see where your boundaries leak. Then come back for the tools that help.